Gift giving for a Mistress

May 3, 2019 - 7 minutes read

I read straight sex workers twitter feeds and blogs and they’re full of pictures of Gucci, Chanel, Louis Vuitton, handbags, lingerie and chocolate given to them buy clients. I read Mistress websites and blogs and they’re generally quite different. I won’t speak for other Mistresses because it’s not my place, however I will share with you some of the greatest gifts I’ve received lately for people who are curious as to what to get a Mistress or for you lurky types with a proclivity to know it all.

This gift was given to Me by one of My favorite people in the world. When I was a fresh apprentice in a commercial dungeon, She went out of Her way to welcome Me by taking Me into session and freaking Me out lol. 8 years later and She’s still one of the closest people in My life. She painted pictures for Me while She’s been in Europe and sent them to Me when I wasn’t having a great time in life. Changed My life as She always has…

Mistress who sent me this prize will be working in the Dungeon with Me upon her return to Australia for a few months in May – July!!

These prizes were given to Me buy another one of My favorite people in the world who always magically reappears in My life when I need a laugh and a smile. Sandy Crack apart from bringing Me the most Me gifts ever, also brings bluies for putting under people’s butts for anal lol. I love them to bits.

My most prized present from a charming man I’ve spent many, many hours with in intellectual and sadistic pursuits. I ruined being a bottom and being able to session with a Mistress for Him by training so many apprentices on Him he became a Dominant Himself lol. A straight razor is ALWAYS going to make you memorable and popular.

The boy who gave Me this strap came into the Dungeon and saw Me lusting over someone elses strap made out of fire hose. He went home and made one for Me. I LOVE it for so many reasons

And some of My favorite gifts are of course books. I LOVE books. Cannot get enough books!

My other favorite gifts are from slaves who donate time, handyman expertise and just do whatever they can to make life as lovely and easy as possible for Me. I have one slave who I adore who has helped reattach doors, builds me CBT devices and built me a spanking bench, always says yes to being of use in session if I need to train someone. He brings angle grinders and other awesome manly man tools to fix things with and lets me have a go of them all even if I mess things up. Anytime I have a light bulb that needs fixing (and I chew through light bulbs) he’s always there to help me change them (I don’t have easy change light bulb issues – they always involve screw drivers and standing on 10 foot high ladders)… he’s always just the slave you always wish you had and never thought you’d get lucky enough to meet.

Every Professional Dominatrix who likes to be bad needs a purpose built fucking bench

Many Mistresses I speak to are not particularly interested in lingerie, chocolates and other such gifts. The Mistresses I know don’t have a superficial bone in Their bodies. They think and feel deeply and always appreciate gifts that are thoughtful and useful. Whether it’s equipment, something you’ve made yourself, a game or book you know your Mistress is into or loves… Mistresses love useful, thoughtful gifts that you wouldn’t give to anyone else because it matches no other person but your Mistress. It’s not about cost, it’s about finding the perfect gift for your perfect person. I have a boy who gives Me different types of tea to calm Me down … apparently he can tell I’m highly strung and I love that he brings me tea lol. I have another boy who brings me random pieces of heavy metal he finds walking around on construction sites at work that I can use as ball weights when doing CBT. Another gave me chain… all loved and well used and changed my entire month from shit to everything’s ok. I have 3 clients who pay for 1 subject each trimester for my uni fees and another boy pays for my uni books. I don’t get gifts of cash, but running a dungeon is ridiculously expensive with a lot of the equipment We use disposable and I know Mistresses will always appreciate extra dollars in tribute so They can buy new needles, new latex to wear and other essentials that will only ever contribute to your session. I have a boy who brings cake every time he attends the Dungeon which I take upstairs and share with the Women working in the full service part of the brothel My dungeon is located in and it’s so lovely to be able to sit down with them and have cake, a chat and catch up. Seeing them smile is very special to Me.

Giving a gift will often change the course of someone’s day. Gifts although not necessary are always loved. Mistresses are not cookie cutter. Think outside the box and you’ll win every time. Having said all that, I’m yet to meet a Mistress who wouldn’t get excited about a pair of Christian Louboutin. LOOK! They even come in patent leather ready to wear with latex!! lol

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