Spending the night with Mistresses

August 11, 2014 - 11 minutes read

My slave is quite bemused by Mistresses. He can’t get his head around how we are sadistic and mischievous in our sadism or so bottom line it hurts. Yet we are fun, light and always up for a laugh. It seems we are a contradiction. You can literally see the confusion flickering in his eyes.

So, what’s it like to be the confusion? What’s it like to do a multi hour session and really get to dwell in the same space as your Mistress?

Every Thursday night I have a standing 7 hour session with one of My slaves with Mistress Lauren always joining us for 3 hours or so of the session.

These sessions are what we call Boot Camp for the boy. When I first met him I set goals for him including weight loss, healthy eating, exercise, healthy head space, emotional happiness and whatever Mistress likes. A seven hour session to encompass all of these goals takes some preparation. I often think people who visit a Mistress don’t really think We put much time or effort into preparing for a session, but I assure you it’s the complete opposite and I’ll give you an example below.

Last week Mistress Lauren and Myself decided to do a mummification using plaster bandage as well as further addressing the ongoing health needs of the boy. We met 3 hours before We were due to start shift to collect everything We needed for the session.

First stop was an arts and craft shop followed by a $2 shop where I picked up 20 plaster bandages for the mummification. Then I met Mistress Lauren for a shopping expedition to yet another $2 shop to pick up some plastic crates and a sport shop to pick up goggles (for water sports play) a pedometer so My slave can count his steps, a latex sports band so he can continue with resistance training, a replacement exercise and food book so he can record his daily intake of food and how much he is moving each day. Then We were off to Coles to pick up healthy food for snacking on because My boy is a shift worker and tends to eat McDonald’s at 3am when nothing else is open.

Mistress Lauren and I on a shopping adventure

Mistress Lauren and I on a shopping adventure

After purchasing healthy snacks for My boy, it was off to Fetish House for the booking.

First We do our weekly weigh in where We all jump on the scales to see if We’ve gained weight or lost weight that week (we’re the Boot Camp Team so we all weigh in together lol) and We have a look at his exercise and food diary. After weigh in is done, the boy is put thru his exercises for the week which takes the form of Me standing for spanking, flogging and paddling while Mistress Lauren screams at him to go harder and faster while waving a stop watch in his face.

Mistress Lauren and I then sit down and go through the healthy eating options We’ve collected, We do a little bit of taste testing and pack one of the crates purchased with snacks to get him through a few days to take to work and put the remaining food in another crate that he can restock his take to work crate with.

I then fluff about doing some hardcore Mistressy type activities with My hardcore Mistress face on.

Mistress Lauren then joins us again for the “whatever Mistress likes” section of the session. My favourite part of course 😉 One of the brilliant things about seeing the same person numerous times is the trust levels that build. With trust is the willingness to explore beyond what you would have thought possible which means things never become dull because you’re always doing something different. Extended sessions also mean you have the time to do more intricate activities or activities that take longer to explore.

My boy’s favourite thing is heavy restriction/mummification/encasement. Through playing with him, I’ve discovered it’s one of my favourite things as well because it can be quite a specific activity so it forces you to be creative. It’s also quite complicated requiring Mistress to think about the materials to be used, what effect they will have on body temperature, breathing, marking, blood pressure, comfort levels, cramping, head space, sub drop chemicals etc. You also need to consider how challenging it is and what will be challenging, what activities you can include because people generally want to be entertained when restrained and if you have someone in mummification or have done a full body encasement, how do you entertain with very little access to body parts?

Last week we decided to do a lower body mummification using plaster bandage. I’ve been talking to Mistress Lauren for a month now about Our desire to do a full body mummification using plaster bandage. We’ve done a lot of research on the activity because it comes with risk. Our job is to know how to do the activity, know what materials are required, know how to use them and potential risks of them, how to get someone out of the restraint if something goes wrong etc. One of the other things we discuss in detail is how to get someone into the restraint in the simplest, calm way that puts the least amount of negative, undesired impact on the body. Argh and my favourite discussion is always how do we keep the room as clean as possible because it’s an OH&S issue.

OH&S keeping it clean for plaster mummification in the dungeon ;-)

OH&S keeping it clean for plaster mummification in the dungeon 😉

After a little bit of trial and error, We encased the lower half of My boys body.

Lower torso mummification using plaster bandage

Lower torso mummification using plaster bandage

 

Now we’ve worked out the best way to go about things, have discussed the experience and impact with the boy, I’m going to order 100 bandages so next We can do a total body encasement. Mistress Lauren and I are just a little bit excited about that. EEEEEEEEEEE!!!

Some people may consider Myself and Mistress Lauren shopping for a boy (I call him boy because he does not identify as a slave, sub or bottom more a mixture of all these things which is fine with me) to be very un-Mistressy. I think one of the terrible things people assume about Mistresses is that we don’t care about our “slaves”, “boys”, “creatures” etc. Whether it be a Mistress allowing you to worship her feet, a Mistress taking the time to purchase you your very own collar if you earn one, a Mistress buying a latex body bag to put you in, a new cane to hit you with… whatever it may be, many Mistresses will take the time to care for her “property”, “client”, “submissive”, “slave” or whatever. We demonstrate this in different ways depending on the need, our whim and what you deserve.

Yerrrrrs Mistresses work hard. We work hard before you arrive and continue throughout the session. The clean up after that session took Mistress Lauren and I 90 minutes at 2am so we work just as hard even after you’ve left.

This is why Mistresses expect respect. We are not simplistic creatures who sit around waiting for a slave to come along and worship at our feet. We put time, energy and effort into everything We do. We work hard, think hard, research hard, prepare hard, play hard and then put it all together to create theatre. It is often said you should feel gifted and lucky to be in the presence of a Mistress. I agree.

Mistress Lauren and I frequently do heavy humiliation, take downs, interrogations, boot camp, corporal camp and lifestyle training together. I also do Tri Bi Tuesday with Mistress Salina which would only be half as good as it is if only one of Us was running the event. I can’t recommend highly enough taking the opportunity to session with multiple Mistresses at once. The training, skill level and energy you get the opportunity to experience in one session is dynamite.

 

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