Visiting Mistress Alex Vicia

January 16, 2017 - 7 minutes read

I’ve decided to write a few blogs about Mistresses who’ve been incredibly lovely to me during the challenging time of change I’m currently experiencing. I don’t think we acknowledge the great things and people in life enough these days. I’ve been talking to a few US and Australian old school straight sex workers and Mistresses who’ve reminded me of who I use to be before I entered the bubble of working for a House. I miss the old me and I’ve REALLY missed talking to and being supported by AMAZING women. I think it’s really important to acknowledge these people and relationships because it matters and people should do it more often.

Firstly Mistress Alex Vicia…..

I’ve always been curious about Mistress Alex Vicia. She’s always been someone I’ve been a smidge in awe of as most Mistresses I know have been. To tell you the truth, meeting Mistresses frightens me as I’m sure it does most boys lol. Yes I believe your trembling in front of a Mistress is warranted (and encouraged because it’s really kind of cute lol).

I had spied Mistress Alex out at places here and there once or twice, but never said hello or identified because neither of us were dressed in latex, so it was not professional time and it’s never polite or warranted to risk breaching a Mistresses privacy.

Last year I attended Hellfire and watched Mistress do a performance on the main stage demonstrating Her shibari prowess. Being a Mistress I’ve been around a lot of shibari and I even attended the rope dojo a few times. It wasn’t something I picked up quickly and because I have the attention span of an amoeba and I’m more into quick, dirty take down restraint, it wasn’t something I pursued. Quite frankly I didn’t see what all the fuss was about. It always amused me more to put someone in heavy latex or leather restraint, chain, duct tape straight jackets, water bondage, shrouds or even plaster cast. Rope was never a go to thing for me.

Lower body (leg and foot) mummification in plaster bandage. EEeeee HAPPY MAKING!

…but then when I watched Mistress performing at Hellfire something changed. Mistress Alex’s performance “moved” me. I am quite limited in my emotional responses lol. Everything is generally quite hilarious to Me because I believe life can be hard but I’m a firm believer that a hard life should be limited to a slaves experience lol, so I try to be happy as often as I can. Then of course we have the extreme Humiliatrix in Me and we won’t even talk about those feelings. Then we have serious Me which only comes out on limited occasions. This wasn’t those surface level feelings though and me just going about My business. When I watched Mistress Alex on stage my breath caught, my cheeks got hot and I literally started crying. I wasn’t sad, I wasn’t happy, I wasn’t laughing, I was emotional. I was moved. Then of course I snapped into Mistress mode and looked at how handy it would be to be able to suspend a body from the roof and cane it and it all looked so effortless!!! It all made perfect sense lol.

So anyway, after watching Mistress Alex doing shibari and having the reaction I did, I decided Mistress Alex wasn’t scary anymore because fear wasn’t the reaction I had and I looked forward to meeting Her one day.

This week I had the good fortune to meet Mistress Alex in Her domain. Mistress Alex’s dungeon is pwetty! And neat! I couldn’t imagine Her dungeon ending up looking like mine at the end of a session lol.

Mistress Alex Vicia is a very calm, considered person. She’s one of those rare Mistresses I’ve met whose every move is calculated and important. I of course am not that person. I’m more a busy bee doing 5 things at once and I’m already onto the 4th when I’m still doing the 1st, hence my sessions are usually very busy.

Although Our session styles could be quite different, I found Mistress Alex to be a very smart, honest, moral, ethical and professional human being, with unquestionable integrity. We both have the same outlook on BDSM, service, approach to the industry and people in general. Of course the main meeting of the minds came with our shared passion for aesthetics associated with BDSM… SHINY latex, equipment, dungeon set up… basically all the beautiful things in life.

I’d recommend seeing Mistress Alex Vicia for anyone who is looking for a highly skilled, professional Mistress who will actually genuinely care about the experience. I’d highly recommend Mistress Alex Vicia to anyone who wants to be “moved”.

Thank You for Your time Mistress. It meant a lot to Me You made the time and it reminded Me who I am and where I want to get back to.

Now go forth and BDSM!

 

 

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